How To Wash A Kitten Without Installing Fear?

how to wash a kitten without installing fear?

i have a 3 year old cat who can’t use the litter box anymore. i’ve tried everything and nothing is working. she has been going outside for over two weeks, every single work day! i’ve got her on all kinds of different foods, given her treats here and there but still no luck. is it just me or do other people have these problems with their fur babies? any ideas/tips would be great!! thanks